In Genesis 12:1 - The Lord said to Abram, 'Go forth from your country, and from your relatives and from your father's house to the land which I will show you.' Abraham didn't suddenly get a bright idea one day like the people in Babel (Genesis 11), and say, "I think I have lived long enough in Ur. Let me move to Canaan and do something there." No. His move was totally dictated by God. Abraham was 75 years old. It is good to wait for even 75 years to hear God and then move. Moses waited for 40 years as a shepherd and then moved, when God spoke to him. And think of what he accomplished! I am not saying we must wait for 75 or 80 years. All I am saying is that we must wait until we hear from God and then move. But, do you think busy 20th-century-man has time for that? No.
I am thankful that when I was a young man of 20 years, God taught me one lesson: "Don't let men move you. Let God alone move you. Many men have urged me to do various things - good men, including my co-workers. I listen to their advice, but I don't move until God also speaks to me. I wait until I hear God, because I know I will end up disastrously, if I listen to the opinions of men. I am not saying we should not consider the opinions of our co-workers. All I'm saying is that the final voice we hear should be God's. God told Abraham to "Go," and he went. God told Moses to "Go," and he went. God told Paul to "Go," and he went. These are the people who accomplished something with their lives. Today people run around trying to do something or the other for God. But they accomplish nothing of eternal value. Statistics-wise, what they do may be impressive. But it's Babylon, not Jerusalem.
"Come, let's move. Let's do something for the Lord. Let's make bricks, let's make mortar, let's do something." You can impress men "Let us make us a name." And you may make a great name for yourself building Babylon - like Nebuchadnezzar did. This is happening today in Christian work and that is the message in Rev.17 and 18. But Abraham waited for God's "Go."
Notice that whenever Abraham moved without the leading of God, he got into trouble. For example: We read that God had told Abraham to leave Ur of the Chaldees and to go where He would lead him. But in Genesis 11:31 we read that it was Terah (Abraham's father) who took Abraham and moved out of Ur. But what had God told Abraham? "Leave your relatives and leave your father's house." But here we see the 75-year-old Abraham holding his Daddy's hand and moving out! That was how Abraham started!!
The ones who will hinder you from doing the will of God will be your relatives first of all - your parents, your brothers, your sisters, your wife and your children. Jesus said, "If any man comes to Meand does not hate his father, mother, brother, sister, wife and children, he cannot be My disciple." You may want to follow the Lord. But your father or your wife may say "No"!
So Terah took Abraham, and they came as far as Haran (Gen. 11:31) and settled there. That was not God's will. Why did they settle there? That was Terah's idea. Haran perhaps had good pasture-land for the flocks. But it was not God's place. And Abraham settled down there with his Daddy! Abraham was a man who made mistakes - and the first mistake he made was to listen to his father, when God had already told him to do something else. So what did God do? God can easily deal with such situations. He took away Terah through death! (Gen. 11:32). Then "Abram went forth as the Lord had spoken to him." (Gen. 12:4).
Do you have to wait until God does something drastic like that before you move on? If God loves you, He will do something drastic like that. But if God sees that you yourself are a compromiser, He may allow you to stay on in Haran all your life and miss the will of God totally. Learn to move with God. Don't listen to relatives who do not know God. By all means, learn from a father if he is a godly man, who knows God - but not from a father who is worldly (I'm referring to spiritual principles here). Finally when Abraham reached Canaan, "the Lord appeared to him and said 'To your descendants I will give this land' " (Gen. 12:5, 7).