To build a Christ-like home, you must have a passion in your heart to be a light in the world, in your relationship as husband and wife.
Remember, God is on your side and He is more interested in you building a godly home than you are yourself. 'If God be for us who can be against us?'.
What a wonderful promise for husbands and wives even if you have messed up your life so far, to believe that God is on your side...